learn to live with your loved ones for the long haul

you never know someone until you talk to someone for a good amount of time, I figure it takes a good solid five years to see someone at their best and their worst and the in between, the way they handle money, what they like to listen to, the way they treat their family the way way they handle kids, how they bounce back from depression how they enjoy the joyful times, their goals, their amount of drive how they treat their friends how they work under pressure. I know that you can't figure that stuff out without at least being friends for five years.

 So learn to live and love your friends for the long haul and don't feel pressured to always rush your love.